A LOST CONNECTION

It is hard when you try to communicate with someone and they refuse to hear you.
Telling how you feel is hard enough but then to withstand the initial rejection and not fall into the PITY POT can get hard sometimes.
When you see a loved one behaving badly and it is a perpetual thing....ignoring it is not the answer. !!!
But to speak up risks splintering the relationship that so-called  "playing friendly" has created...but the barbs in your soul are just as painful when you are silent.
The fear that things with never be right...the doubts that scream in your mind -THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE !!!
The guilt when you finally speak because you had been stuffing it so long --you feel like you are to blame, your mind and emotions playing games saying "you could have said something sooner.".."you brought this on yourself."..LIES ...all LIES!!
It comes down to TRUTH!
Are you willing to be honest?
Are you willing to wait out the rough patch while the other person tries with all they have to prove you wrong out of the SCREAMS of their EGO?
Are you willing to pray and read the Word and Stand on it, resting in it?
Are you willing to choose NOT to be easily provoked?
Are you willing?
We say: I will not be walked on any longer!!!
 But if we speak up and confront in Love and Truth ...it may feel like they are still walking on us ( no immediate evidence does that) but really they are just hitting a standing wall. BE patient!! BE resilient!!
When God begins to walk you through a trial...HE CAN BE TRUSTED...!!!! He will make a way...Do not faint or become weary in well doing.
Do not give into the flesh that wants to scream its rights in the face of the perpetrator.
Be at rest....Be calm....Know that God has a plan....He will perform all that He has promised to those who are His!
Proverbs 3:5
Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;
Proverbs 29:25
Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is kept safe.

Act The Way You Wish To Be

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Very good read...Happy Wednesday!

#992   Act The Way You Wish To Be
There is a basic principle found in the writings of the Rambam (Hilchos Daos) and other classic Torah sources: "Act the way you wish to be and you will become that way." We are influenced by our actions. Take, for example, someone who wants to become a kinder person. By doing many acts of kindness over time, the person actually becomes an authentically kinder person. Each day write down at least ten positive actions that you did. Write down kind words and acts, blessings that you said mindfully, and positive things that you did even though they were hard to do. Write down when you felt grateful, and when you refrained from saying something that would cause another person distress. Write down an encouraging telephone call that you made. What will happen when you are resolved to write down ten positive actions each day? You will go out of your way to do them. This will have a cumulative effect on your self-image.
(From Rabbi Zelig Pliskin's book: "Building Your Self- image and the Self-image of Others" (Artscroll) Chapter 11)

See Rabbi Pliskin's new book "Life Is Now"

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Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing.
-Albert Schweitzer

First time I have seen this quote.  I love it, so true it is!  = )

Have a great day! 

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God's sunshine could flood your soul if you wash its windows.

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Why Monday Motto is Important!

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The Point of Monday Motto is to cause each of us to become MORE AWARE of what is happening in us, through us, and to us during the week.

The Lord gave us the understanding that a three fold cord can not be easily broken!!

KNOW SHARE SERVE is the THREE FOLD CORD. It can be used in many different type of situations.

In relationships ...get to KNOW others, SHARE of yourself, become partners to SERVE each other.

Also in every relationship you have there is 3 CORDS...1st cord is YOU...2nd cord is A FRIEND ...3rd cord is CHRIST --with that in mind we should be mindful of how we treat each other, that we be respectful, that we be honest.

In learning and sharing your knowledge...become more aware (KNOW) and put your experience into words (SHARE) then you can be a resource for others (SERVE.)

In your Spiritual walk...get to KNOW God through the Word...SHARE honestly in prayer....Put what you learn in to action and SERVE.

NONE OF US corner the market on knowledge ...that is why we are to be of a Teachable Spirit. We all learn in layer....line upon line.

Thanks for Joining us!!
F and L'er
Starla

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