October 11, 2010

Monday Motto: Avoid and become annoyed.

Avoid and become annoyed…
Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. The fearful are caught as often as the bold. -Helen Keller

Found this quote very interesting to say the least. So, if what I am thinking & feeling is never revealed by me to anyone it is a temporary inward solution and a continuous problem. That was a big wake up call for me! Sounds to me like Helen Keller is right. In the long run…it is a lot more work and stress to think I have it concealed within me. But really who am I fooling? Me, of course. Others can see, feel and even hear it even if I do not come right out and say it. That leaves room for the devil to do his dirty work. That is when imaginations start to manifest themselves in us and in others. There is the danger. What we assume will eventually consume us. Fear is a dirty culprit here. Either we step out in faith which is courage and be truthful or we decide to hide behind our well decorated walls of self protection. Which ultimately leads to rejection. The very thing we are working so hard to avoid we make friends with instead of ourselves.

Lately I have been purposely and consciously choosing courage. Courage is not the absence of fear, it is doing it afraid. It is a confidence enhancer and it really works!
I decided to look up the word enhance and it is very enlightening.


Enhance-1. improve: to improve or add to the strength, worth, beauty, or other desirable quality of something



2. increase clarity of image

Being who you really are inside and out. Such a freeing feeling you get when you release who you are to others instead of hiding from yourself and others as well.

2 Corinthians 10: 5-7
5) We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. 6) And we will be ready to punish every act of disobedience, once your
7) You are looking only on the surface of things.

So the question is are we going to choose to look at the surface and stay on the merry go round or choose to improve ourselves and our relationship with being who God intended us to be? That requires going deeper.

Proverbs 8:12 The Message Bible
“I am Lady Wisdom, and I live next to Sanity;
Knowledge and Discretion live just down the street.

The choice is ours and ours alone. Free will. Are you willing?

obedience is complete. I'm working on it and it is a work in progress, Amen!


Have a great day!

Tina 
"Write your plans in pencil and give God the eraser."

October 8, 2010

Good Quote:


"Pick and choose carefully what to fight for--but stand up, be counted and fight indeed for those causes that stir your heart." -- Ray Lammie
It is needed!
Stand for what you know is right!
Stand for what your God believes in, Amen!

Do Things Daily That Are Difficult For You To D


This is great advise...to often I think we think within ...in fear...Ohh I cant say that!!!
LET'S PRACTICE SPEAKING THE TRUTH WITHIN US TO THOSE AROUND US.
Each and every day, say or do at least one thing that you find difficult to say or do.

Every time you say something that is difficult for you to say, you build up your self-image: "I am a person who can speak up and say things even thought I find them difficult to say."

Every time you do something difficult, you build up your self-image: "I am a person who can do things even though they are difficult for me to do."

This is a highly empowering self-image booster. This way you will keep saying and doing things that you need to say and do, and you won't be stopped by the thoughts of, "I find it difficult to say or do, so I won't say or do it."
(From Rabbi Zelig Pliskin's book: "Building Your Self-image and the Self-image of Others" (Artscroll) Chapter 63)

October 7, 2010

P.U.S.H.

When all seems dark  remember P.U.S.H - Pray Until Something Happens - never loose faith!

October 6, 2010

The rough and smooth places

Everyone has them.....
Places in the soul where you are rough, jagged, pointy, uneven and piercing.
We also have smooth, soft, even and gentle places.
Ever hear that saying " IF I AM MYSELF, WHAT IF THEY DON'T LIKE ME!!"
Did you know that it is the spaces where you breath and allow yourself to shine through that makes you attractive to other people? And while there may be people who don't care for you or your personality type ...it tells you something about them...it speaks of their ability to handle differences, be real with you and be a supporter of your best self.
Most people can smell "fake" a mile away...you may only fudge a little but it is all the same.
Be willing to step out and see if people can handle you. And you will find those who can! They are the ones you want around anyway...right!!??? :0)
Rest...
Give yourself a break...
Be who you are !! ...in all your rough ( angry, bossy, pushy, touchy, intolerant, negative )  and smooth ( calm, humble, obliging, agreeable, tolerant, positive ) places.
PS: if you didn't notice -- on both sides of Rough vs. Smooth --you need both sides!!
Anything taken to extreme can be harmful!!
F and L'er
Starla